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Guiding Questions
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1) What's the point of this family history project? How
did it originate? What is its history? 2)
What have we learned about Ella Kinsman's first 18 years?
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Origins and
History of this Project
It
all
began soon after Mom died.
Here was a woman who, as the
mother of five teenagers, would often find her kids' friends hanging
out with her at the kitchen counter because she was such a delight to talk to, so funny and
charming, so gifted at making people feel good about themselves.
"C'mon, Lampland, let's go! We're late
for the party!"
"Hang
on, willya Mike, I'm talking with your ma here! Sorry ma, but
anyways, so
like I was sayin' . . ."
Our friends called her "ma" too.
But only after
they'd sat down and talked to her at least once.
(Betty Delehanty Schroeder in 1969, age 41)
She had a gift for reading people,
for knowing what made them tick, and for making them feel good about
themselves.
Like Emerson's
"Gentleman," she was somehow able to relate in a positive and productive
way with every type and kind of human being, from the most erudite
scholar to the lowliest ditch-digger, no matter the class, no matter the
color, no matter the condition in life. Deep in her bones she knew
how to put people at ease, draw them out, find the
best in them. I never met anyone who didn't genuinely enjoy her company.
Canny beyond repair, font of fierce and boundless love, riotous humor,
and remarkable displays of practical wisdom, she really was one in a
million.
There was never a time
in our lives when we didn't feel
toward her a deep emotional intimacy. Even as rebellious and
irreverent youth. Even when she was really pissed off. It
was just always there, like the earth or the sky. What a gift that
was.
Then one night, at
the youthful age of 59, she
woke up at three o'clock in the morning with a crushing pain in her chest, unable to breathe.
A massive coronary. A few minutes later, with her husband Cliff frantic at
her side, she died. With dirt under her fingernails from the day's
gardening. She loved gardening.

Betty Jane Delehanty
Schroeder,
a year or two before her
death in 1988 at age 59
Then, as the days and weeks passed, from the
depths of our grief
came an impulse, a notion, a kind of inchoate hunger to transform our
profound sense of loss into something creative, something positive, to
try to recapture something of the joy and intimacy of the connection from which we had
been so suddenly and prematurely severed.
So we (Mike & Tom) hoofed it down to city hall to find our
great-grandmother's death certificate. We knew who Mom's mother
was -- Grandma, of course. Genevieve Sullivan Delehanty had lived
with her daughter Betty since Betty's birth, and with us grandkids through most of our childhoods, till she grew too ill and had to
go into a nursing home, where we often visited her (though not often
enough).
For whatever reason, the good Lord decided to pack
into Genevieve's life ten lifetime's worth of suffering and death. But despite all the pain and heartache she'd
suffered in her 82 years, she never grew embittered. Instead,
remarkably, the exact opposite was true. Distilled through her
spirit, in a mysterious alchemy
known only to the Creator, all that heartache and suffering was
transformed into something very close to the quintessence of love.
Maybe all that pain and hardship led her to understand, in the deepest
recesses of her soul, what the whole point of life really is.
Maybe it stripped away all the nonsense and foolishness -- all the
egoism & desires to buy stuff & accumulate stuff & drive fast & have
great sex & have whiter teeth & seek personal pleasures of every type & variety -- leaving behind only the things that truly mattered.
Whatever the case, to us she was, and remains, quite simply the most
wonderful person ever to inhabit the planet.
But we knew absolutely nothing about her ancestors. Probably
because her stories inevitably would turn into tales of hardship and woe,
and because she didn't want to burden or toxify her beloved
grandchildren's fresh young minds, she'd never talked about her family history.
(Genevieve Sullivan Delehanty, Christmas 1965)
And then, there it was, plain as day.
Grandma's
mother was named Jennie Sullivan,
born
Jennie
Lang, in Burr Oak, Michigan, on November 10, 1866. Jennie's mother
was named
Ella Kinsman, born in New
York, and her father
Frank Lang, born in Germany.
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The section of
Jennie Sullivan's death certificate that was key to all our subsequent
investigations on Nellie's life and ancestry.
♪
♫
Copious praise &
accolades unto the impeccable memory of Grandma's sister Mary
Sullivan Church, our Aunt Maime!
♪
♫
Ella Kinsman? Frank Lang?
We'd never heard of either one.
Who were these people? Where did they come from? What were
their stories? And by learning about them, by uncovering their
stories, what might we learn about ourselves?
♣
And so the journey commenced
-- a journey that continues today, nearly 20 years after marching into
city hall to find Jennie Sullivan's death certificate. It's
had many twists and turns, with lots of stumbles and missteps and
unexpected detours along the way.
Ella Kinsman, it
turns out, lived an extraordinary life -- Ellen,
Ella, Nellie, and Nettie, tagged in various periods with the surnames
Kinsman, Lang, Blowe (or Blow), and, lastly, Church -- a character whose
many names only begin to hint at the richness and complexity of
the life-paths she followed.
Usually she went by Nellie,
so that's
usually what we call her here. She's been elusive,
this Nellie, and so she remains. We have no
photos, no letters, no physical artifacts of any kind, except our own
flesh and blood.
Well, that's not exactly true.
There are two
physical artifacts that she herself created that
survive into the present-day. These consist of
the two tiny X's she made when she "signed" her divorce papers in
Hastings, MN, on January 25, 1871.
She actually "signed" twice.
Her first X is very tiny --
its longest line less than 8 millimeters. Her second X, after
she'd been recalled to testify a second time, is half again as big (12
mm) and exudes considerably more self confidence. These X's, atop
a mountain of other indirect evidence, suggest that Nellie Kinsman Lang
was able to move with uncommon swiftness from unease and indecision to
self-assurance and decisiveness.
We are not making this up.
Take a look. Here is her first signature, which we will call
X-1.
This signature followed her testimony detailing the abuse and suffering
she experienced as Frank's wife. Note especially how tiny X-1 is,
and carefully drawn so as to avoid touching any surrounding letters:
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X-1
X-1 is tiny, tiny, tiny.
Here is her second
signature, which we'll call X-2,
inscribed later the same day after she was recalled to the witness stand
and gave additional brief testimony on her knowledge of Frank's current
whereabouts:
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X-2
X-1 appears not only
miniscule but tentative, unsure of
itself, almost embarrassed -- as if she were afraid that her mark on the
page would intersect with the adjacent words, and made sure it didn't.
One envisions her scrawling X-1 slowly, laboriously, her shoulders
hunched, pen grasped tightly in her fingers, face a few inches from
the paper. The first-drawn part of X-1, which we will call
X-1a (sloping from upper left to lower
right) shows a substantial concavity over a distance
of less than a centimeter -- an arc inscribed very carefully, yet
traversing
a miniscule distance.
Try this yourself, and imagine the frame of mind required to make such a tiny
mark with such deliberation and focus.
X-2 scarcely resembles X-1.
Indeed,
it appears to be a different signature altogether. Not only larger
and more distinct -- with the pen pressed more firmly
into
the paper -- X-2 also appears far more confident and self-assured, boldly
crossing over into an adjacent word. The slight arc in
X-2a (the first-drawn segment)
follows an arc opposite to X-1a's! In fact
X-2a is slightly S-shaped, with
two distinct slopes -- the first segment angling sharply down at
about 58°,
the second trailing off to the right, with a tiny upward jog at the
terminus -- a kind of letting go.
X-2b is
almost perfectly straight, and very close to 45°,
conveying a strong suggestion of self-confidence and certainty.
These are, in short, two very different signatures
-- in some ways mirror images. Emblematic of this
difference is the opposition between the last-drawn line, X-2b, which
suggests strength, pride, and resolute spirit, and the first-drawn,
X-1a, which conveys fear, weakness, and shame.
There is also the matter of the dot under X-2,
which Mike hypothesizes represents not an ink smudge, but a deliberate
laying of the pen on the paper -- a final mark, a final period.
"That's it," she seems to be saying. "My marriage to Frank.
My putting pen to paper. My final X-marks-the-spot. It is
done. It is over. The End."
♣
This quasi-serious,
somewhat silly, largely self-satirical exercise is meant partly
as a joke (and partly not -- these really are the only physical
artifacts directly from Nellie Kinsman Lang, at least that we've uncovered, and they
really do have a story to tell), and partly to illustrate the paucity of
evidence at our disposal. Mainly it's meant to show the extent to which
we've been compelled to grasp at the tiniest fragments in order to try
to understand something of the contours of Nellie's life.
Uncovering that evidence was made all
the more arduous by our initial ignorance about commercial genealogy services like Ancestry.com.
That's probably because we launched our investigations during the time period
commonly known as the Late Pre-Internet Age.
When we started,
lacking both modem and cable, not
to mention Internet service provider (there being no such thing as the
Internet -- we say it twice because some readers might at first find the
concept incomprehensible), Mike examined census records from Burr Oak
before visiting the area in the autumn of 1989. Rummaging around
in the local public library, he gathered a few stray bits of data on
some Kinsman's who lived in Burr Oak Township from the late 1850s.
A couple of farmers, Asa E. and Sheldon Kinsman, along with
their wives and kids -- Mary Kinsman, Sarah Kinsman, some others.
But no Ella Kinsman.
Mike also solicited recollections from the few
surviving friends and family members. By this time he and Tom had
gathered together a good handful of documents -- obituaries, death
certificates, letters, census data. With this material Mike put
together a little booklet for his siblings for Christmas 1989.
Then, the following year,
working in the National Archives
with genealogists buzzing like bees all around him, Mike decided, on a
lark, to see if maybe Frank Lang had a Civil War pension file. He
did! It was long, too. And complicated. So was William
Schroeder's pension file, which Mike also copied. But he was a
busy guy, that Mike, what with books to read, exams to prepare for, a
dissertation to write. So he perused those old pension files, took a
few desultory notes, and filed them all away.
And there things sat
for the next 15 or so years.
Then, in the middle of the first decade of the twenty-first century (on
Thursday, December 8, 2005, at 7:35 p.m., to be exact), Mike got the
notion to revisit those old family history files. It occurred to
him that writing it up all afresh might make a nice Christmas present
for his kids (Sarah, then 16, and Tim, 12). So he dusted off the old
files and started digging around again.
He started writing, and soon hit the same dead
ends he and Tom had hit 15 years before. Soon it became a real
puzzle, a real mystery. And few things are more engrossingly fun
than trying to solve a really good, really challenging puzzle.
Especially when it's really cold outside and much of the past year has
been spent working your ass off and squirreling away provisions.
In the meantime,
as we've seen, something called
the Internet was invented. So now Mike had access to tons more
information than he and Tom had had 15 years before. So he wrote what he knew, and he dug
for what he didn't know. And he wrote and he dug, and he dug as he
wrote. He got lots of help, too, from a very kind lady. And
gradually, in fits and starts, as the snow piled high outside his
window, the pieces of the puzzle started coming
together.
After three mostly sleepless weeks, the result was
a 45,000-word, 200 page manuscript -- part genealogy, part detective story, part act of
remembrance, all act of love. It's published here, warts and all
(most if it anyway -- some parts toward the end were left out, being too
recent and too personal),
its sundry mistakes and infelicities left largely intact.

(Thumbnail of cover of one of seven known
extant hard copies of The Awesomely Gripping Saga,
initialed by the author;
reproduced with permission)
Here's an especially juicy egregiously erroneous passage
on Nellie:

Excerpt of p. 24 from
one of the seven known extant hard copies of
The Awesomely
Gripping Saga (reproduced with permission)
In fact, Mike was entirely wrong
in his
supposition that Nellie had likely died between 1871 and 1884. As
his awesomely gripping account of those feverish days of researching and
writing makes clear, he did not have opportunity to correct his mistake. As Christmas
Day dawned he still had no idea when Nellie died. That was about the
same time he learned that Nellie's divorce papers existed, after Tom
described them to him on the phone. But he had learned a
lot more about her ancestry and youth.
The
1850 census listing for Ella, key
to discovering the date and place of her birth, not to mention her
ancestry, was kindly provided by Mike's new-found Web-pal Margaret Bourdette
at a critical juncture in his investigations, around Dec 18 if memory
serves. This was after a lengthy exchange in which Mike & Margaret explored
various possibilities regarding Ella's identity.
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Excerpt of 1850 census listing Nellie, age 2
♣
Now, with Christmas 2005 well behind us
and this marvelous invention called a website
before us, we can use
these "Documents Pages" as a kind of clearinghouse and workspace for all
the documentary evidence we've gathered -- a filing cabinet in which to store it, a place to gather it together, analyze it, interpret it,
and try to understand what it all means.
We do that now
with the documentary evidence on Ella Kinsman's first 18 years.
Nellie to 18: Evidence & Interpretations
Ella Kinsman.
A
motherless farm child. Till age 7 raised mainly by her pioneer
settler grandmother in rural south-central New York near the
Pennsylvania border.
Then in the mid-1850s compelled to join a family migration westward through Ohio and
Indiana to Michigan, with her hardscrabble farmer father Sheldon Kinsman, his
third wife, and their
children, and her farmer uncle Asa E. Kinsman and his wife and kids. This much we know.
Here is what we suspect:
After leaving New
York she became the family workhorse and outcast, exploited, neglected,
perhaps abused, kept out of school due to her father's valuing
her labor more than her education. By age 12, estranged from her father and uncle and
their families and itching to make a new life. By ages 16 and 17, desperate
enough to secretly marry and get pregnant by an abusive ne'r-do-well,
leave Michigan for Minnesota, and
never look back.
Yet we also believe
that as hard as things became after leaving New
York, memories of the love of her grandmother Mary Eaton Kinsman endured, in a deep
and secret space, nourishing her spirit throughout her life. A
legacy of love she in turn bequeathed to her daughter Jennie Lang
Sullivan, and to Jennie's
daughter Genevieve Sullivan Delehanty, and to Genevieve's daughter Betty
Delehanty Schroeder. And thence by the
grace of the Creator to us.
Timeline
of the Major Events Marking
Ella Kinsman's Childhood and Youth
Birth
(8 March 1848) Southport, Chemung Co, NY, to Sheldon and Louisa
(Eliza) Tuthill Kinsman (see
Biography of Sheldon Kinsman).
Age 0-1 (1848-49)
Mother
dies (cause and date unknown).
Ages 1-6
(1849-1854)
Living partly with her father Sheldon,
but mostly with Sheldon's parents, Mary Eaton and George Kinsman, in
Southport. We suspect that her grandmother Mary and step-sister Saloma (Selma) are her
primary care-givers: feeding and bathing her, tending her
while she's sick, tucking her into bed and singing her to sleep at night. Her
father Sheldon, 31, lives next-door, sharing a dwelling with an
unmarried 19 year-old male laborer named Nathan Wilcox.
(Remarkably, Nathan Wilcox and Saloma Kinsman later married and
raised five children together: Lafayette, Gertrude, Rosalie,
Louis, and Fred. Saloma died in Detroit in 1926.)
Age 6
(15 Oct 1854)
Father Sheldon marries second wife Mary E. Burr (b. 1821, New York) in Chemung Co.
Age 8
(1856)
Migrates west out of Chemung Co NY with her
father, step-mother, and her Uncle Asa and his family, first to
Napoleon and Wauseon, Ohio, then to northern Indiana, where step-brother
Sheldon Jr. is born. We suspect she fiercely resisted leaving
New York, and
that, for her, the process of migration mainly meant unremitting
toil, and being wrenched away from the sustaining love of her Aunt
Selma and Grandma Mary.
Age 9
(1857)
Families of Sheldon and Asa settle in St. Joseph Co,
MI.
Step-sister Mary is born.
Age 12
(1860)
Not listed in the 1860 census; not living with father Sheldon and
his family, or with uncle Asa E. and his family. Perhaps listed
as Ellen Jenkins, a servant girl for blacksmith James Powers
in Burr Oak, St Joseph Co, MI (see
Seeking Ella in Burr
Oak Village, Mi in 1860). We suspect that by
this time she is estranged from Sheldon
and most, but not all, of the family. We also suspect that
around this time she develops a close bond with one of her aunts
(actual or fictive) who has a brother in Hastings, MN.
Age 13
(1861)
Working somewhere in St Joseph County. Has received very
little if any schooling. Meanwhile three more step-brothers
have been born: Jackson, George, and Thomas.
Age 13
(Aug
1861)
Franz
Lang comes to Burr Oak from Lagrange Co, IN, and enlists in the
Union Army. Possibly spends 10-11 days in Burr Oak before
mustering into his unit in Monroe, MI. We suspect that he and
Ellen meet.
Ages 13-16
(1861-1864)
In St Joseph County, probably in Burr Oak
Village or working on a neighboring farm. We suspect she
dreams of leaving the drudgery of the farm, or the blacksmith shop,
or wherever else she is working, and dreams of Franz.
Meanwhile her future husband Frank Lang is serving as a nurse (or
medical attendant) in the Union field hospitals, up to his elbows in
the blood and guts of his comrades. In 1863 or 1864, Frank
suffers an inguinal hernia that will later form the basis for his
pension claim.
Age 16 (11 Jan 1865)
Secretly marries Frank Lang in White Pigeon,
St Joseph Co, MI, while Frank is on furlough. The next day
(Jan 12) Frank is transferred to the Veteran Reserve Corps.
Age 17
(1 Aug 1865)
Frank Lang is examined by a doctor in
Jonesville, Hillsdale Co, MI, a few miles east of Burr Oak along the
railroad. We suspect he comes to Burr Oak to see his wife
Ellen.
Age 17 (7 Feb 1866)
Makes her marriage with Frank public by filing
the paperwork with the county clerk and paying the fee. We
suspect this is the day she became pregnant with his baby (there is
no evidence that Frank's inguinal hernia ever diminished his
capacity for an active sex life).
Age 18
(10 Nov 1866)
Gives birth to
Jennie Lang in Burr Oak.
Age 18
(Dec 1866)
Moves to
Hastings, Dakota Co, MN with husband Frank and baby Jennie.
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Direct
evidence on these years
of Nellie's life is
fragmentary at best. Given her lack of schooling and the
alacrity with which she married Frank, bore his child, and
hightailed it out of Michigan -- as well as her father Sheldon's
occupation as a pioneer farmer and woodworker, and her structural
position within her family (as the only child of her father's first
wife) -- it
seems reasonable to suppose that she spent the vast bulk of her time performing
domestic labor of various kinds: washing clothes, preparing
food, cleaning house, tending to the sundry needs of her smaller
step-siblings.
(Right: Girl harvesting potatoes,
early 20th c. California,
www.dir.ca.gov/.../ YWExhibit4.htm
)
Trying to imagine Nellie's life
during these years, one is reminded of the diary of Emerson Smith, a
young farmer in Tioga County, PA, adjacent to Nellie's birthplace of
Chemung County, NY (diary
available on Tri-Counties Genealogy & History
by Joyce M. Tice,
http://www.rootsweb.com/~srgp/jmtindex.htm).

Each day in the late 1880s,
Emerson Smith
jotted down a few words about the day's activities. In the
spring it was "hauled stone, hauled stone, hauled stone," in the
fall, "cut corn, cut corn, cut corn." If we substitute "washed
clothes" and "kitchen work" (or "domestic labor") for "hauled stone"
and "cut corn," we feel we have a pretty solid understanding of the
basic contours of Nellie's life as a child and young woman.
(Left: Girl washing clothes, ca. 1900,
www.medivia.sele.it)
There follow the documentary shards
and fragments on which the
foregoing is based.
The Documents
Before 1843
George and Mary Eaton Kinsman and Family Migration from Vermont and
Southport, Elmira, Chemung Co NY
See The Awesomely Gripping
Saga, end of Book I and beginning of Book III, for
details on the migration of George and Mary Eaton Kinsman and family
from Vermont to Chemung County, NY in the 1820s, and for more
details on Mary Eaton Kinsman in particular; see also
Ancestry Chart 7 on the family history of Mary Eaton
Kinsman.
13 July 1843. Marriage of Asa E. Kinsman to Sarah Rogers, Southport, Elmira, Chemung
Co NY.
This excerpt from the Elmira
Gazette from the
Tri-Counties Genealogy & History by Joyce M.
Tice (www.rootsweb.com/~srgp/jmtindex.htm) shows the
marriage of Nellie's uncle Asa E. Kinsman to Sarah Rogers, daughter
of George S. Rogers:
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13 July 1843:
A. E. Kinsman married in Southport to Miss Sarah Rogers,
daughter of George S. Rogers . . . fine lot of cake received.
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The same source
also shows George S. Rogers died of "congestion of the lungs" on 23
Feb 1860 in Southport. George's wife Susan (Susannah)
evidently nursed her ailing husband until his death, after which she
left Southport to join her daughter Sarah in Michigan, where she was
recorded in July 1860 as living with Asa E. and Sarah Kinsman and
family (see 1860 census, below).
March 1848.
Announcement of Nellie's Birth in the Elmira Gazette.
The following transcribed document
appears on Tri-Counties Genealogy & History by Joyce M.
Tice (www.rootsweb.com/~srgp/jmtindex.htm), an item in
the Elmira Gazette describing Nellie's birth:
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Southport
births in 1848: Kinsman. Elect to Sheldon and
Louisa.
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Within the year Eliza Tuthill, the mother of "Elect" (Ella), had
died. Evidently baby Ella went to live with the family of her
grandmother Mary Eaton Kinsman, who lived next door to Ella's father
Sheldon, as shown in the September 1850 census page that follows.
13 Sept 1850.
US Census, George and Mary Kinsman and Family (including Ella [Ellen]), Sheldon
Kinsman, and Asa E. Kinsman, Town of Southport, Chemung Co, NY.
One will not find "Ellen Kinsman"
in the 1850 census, because for
some reason the census-taker decided to record her surname as "Cinsman,"
not "Kinsman," despite all the other Kinsman's surrounding her.
Nonetheless, it is certain that this is her, living with the family
of her grandparents George and Mary, next-door to her widowed father
Sheldon, and only a few doors down from her uncle Asa E. Kinsman and
his wife Sarah (Rogers) Kinsman.
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1850 CENSUS
GEORGE AND MARY KINSMAN AND FAMILY
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George Kinsman |
53 |
M |
Farmer |
NY |
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Mary Kinsman |
50 |
F |
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Mass |
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Selma |
22 |
F |
|
PA |
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Charles |
18 |
M |
Farmer |
NY |
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LaFayette |
16 |
M |
Farmer |
NY |
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Keley |
14 |
M |
|
NY |
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Merritt |
11 |
M |
|
NY |
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Hiram |
8 |
M |
|
NY |
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Ellen Colstock |
7 |
F |
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NY |
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Ellen Cinsman |
2 |
F |
|
NY |
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Nathan Wilcox |
19 |
M |
Laborer |
NY |
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thumbnails:
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1855-56. Migration from New York to Ohio and Indiana.
One set of clues
about Nellie's life in the mid-1850s comes from William C. Kinsman
II, The Kinsman Family, vol. 2 (transcription kindly provided
by Margaret Bourdette):
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[Sheldon
Kinsman and third wife Mary E. Burr] resided at Elmira, NY,
Napoleon, Ohio, Wauseon, Ohio, and Burr Oak, MI.
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A related hint
comes from the 1860 census, which shows that Nellie's
step-brother Sheldon, age 5,
was born in Indiana, and that her step-sister, Mary, age 3, was born in Michigan (see
1860 census, below). We thus surmise that the migration from
Chemung Co NY to St Joseph Co MI took place in stages, with two
brief periods of settlement in Ohio and one in Indiana before the
family landed permanently in Michigan in 1857.
1857.
First Village Assessment Roll, Burr Oak, Michigan.
The following entry
was one of our first clues about the Kinsman's in Burr Oak, MI,
found in a notebook in the Burr Oak Public Library's "First Village
Assessment Roll." It lists a farm owned by "Bennett &
Kinsman," as follows:
S.W. Corner Cliff Hooping and Hackman farm. Bennett &
Kinsman
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NE 1/4 of SE 1/4 |
40 ac. |
$1050 |
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W 1/2 of SE 1/2 |
80 ac. |
$1200 |
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E 1/2 of E 1/2 of SW 1/4 |
40 ac. |
$200 |
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It also lists neighboring farms.
Thumbnails below
are: (1) the page photocopied from the notebook, and
(2) and (3), a couple of maps indicating the probable location of
the farm. It is not known whether the Village Assessment Roll
referred to Sheldon Kinsman or his brother Asa E., but what seems important
is this clear evidence that the Kinsman's owned land in St Joseph
County in 1857, and the land's probable location.
1857 Village Assessment Roll
ca 1910 map, Burr Oak Twp
1988 map Burr Oak Twp
June 1860.
U.S. Census Listings of Sheldon Kinsman, Asa E. Kinsman, and Frank
Lang.
In 1860, Nellie's father
Sheldon Kinsman, age 44,
was listed as a farmer in Florence Township, St. Joseph Co, MI with
his wife Mary E. Kinsman, 40, and their five children (Sarah, 9,
Sheldon Jr., 5,
Mary, 3,
Jackson, 2, and
Thomas, 1), as seen in the
following excerpt:
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The same 1860 census shows
Nellie's uncle Asa Kinsman, age 41, in
nearby Burr Oak Township, St Joseph Co, with wife
Sarah, age 37, their six
children, and Sarah's mother Susan Roggers, age 56:
Meanwhile, Nellie's future husband
Frank Lang
is working as a laborer on a farm in Springfield Township, Lagrange
Co, IN, about 10 miles southeast of Burr Oak Village
(erroneously listed as "Frank Laug" in the ancestry.com
database). In August 1861 Frank comes to Burr Oak and
enrolls in the Union Army:
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Where is Nellie
in 1860? We don't know, despite the exhaustive search
described in
Seeking Ella In
Burr Oak Village, Mi, 1860.
1 April
1861. Annual
Township Election, Burr Oak MI.
In the early 1860s,
Asa E. Kinsman
tried to become something of a local political player in Burr Oak,
starting the year after the village was incorporated. This document shows that at
the annual township election of April 1, 1861, Asa E. Kinsman
received a grand total of one (1) vote for Supervisor, from a total
of 299 votes. Not an especially auspicious launching of his
political career.
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10 Aug 1861. Frank Lang's Enrollment in the Union Army in Burr Oak, MI.
Excerpt from
Frank's Muster Roll
showing he "joined for duty and enrolled"
in Burr Oak on this date. He and the rest of his unit mustered
in in Monroe, Monroe Co MI on Aug 22, giving him 10-11 days to
explore Burr Oak:
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June 1863.
Volunteer Bounty Fund, Burr Oak Twp.
In June 1863
Asa
E. Kinsman
contributed $5 to the "Volunteer Bounty Fund"
for the upkeep of local Civil War volunteers. We know, this
says nothing about Nellie, but it does show that her Uncle Asa was around and about in town, had an interest in public affairs,
and had sufficient financial solvency to contribute $5 to a cause he
evidently believed in.
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4 April
1864. Burr Oak
Township Election.
By 1864,
Asa E. Kinsman had sharpened
his political skills sufficiently to be elected as one of township's
four constables, with 194 votes out of 1,119 -- apparently the pinnacle of his political career.
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11 Jan 1865. Marriage of Frank Lang and Ellen Kinsman, White
Pigeon, St Joseph Co, MI.
A very revealing document that
shows that Frank and Nellie married while Frank was still in the
army, and that they did not make their marriage official for another
13 months:
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Frank Lang to Ellen
Kinsman
This certifies
that Mr. Frank Lang of White Pigeon and Miss Ellen Kinsman of the
same place were by me united in the bonds of marriage at White
Pigeon on the 11th day of January, in the year of our Lord one
Thousand Eight Hundred and sixty five conformably to the ordinance
of God and the Laws of the State.
Filed February 7, 1866 F. H. Davis
John C. Goss, Clerk Minister of the Gospel
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1 Aug 1865. Frank
Lang, Examining Surgeon's Certificate, Hillsdale, MI.
This document
is included here because it shows Frank in Hillsdale, MI -- a
few miles east of Burr Oak along the rail line -- on August 1, 1865.
Also reproduced in
Frank's Civil War
Pension File.
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7 Feb 1866. Marriage
License of Frank Lang and Nellie Kinsman Filed with County Clerk, St
Joseph Co, MI.
See document
above: 11 Jan 1865
-- Marriage of Frank Lang and Ellen Kinsman, White
Pigeon, St Joseph Co, MI.
10 Nov 1866. Birth of
Jennie Lang, Burr Oak, St Joseph Co, MI.
♪
♫
Thank you Aunt Maime!
♪
♫
Without your razor sharp
bull's-eye memory on your mother's birthplace, birthdate, and
your grandmother's maiden name, we never would have known where to
look for Jennie's ancestry, and very probably would still be staring
a big fat genealogical dead-end. Not to mention the data on
your
long-lost never-laid-eyes-on biological grandfather Frank Lang.

The accuracy of
this information, relatively rare for death certificates, led
us to suppose that Nellie and Maime were quite close, and that Maime
knew a lot about Nellie's girlhood and youth. This supposition
was later confirmed when we learned that grandma Nellie and granddaughter Maime lived
together in
the same small house in SE Minneapolis from about 1911 to 1916, and
that Nellie married Charley Church, Maime's
husband's father, in 1916. (Believe it or not, our hunches and intuition
are generally far more accurate than not! Which isn't to say
that we don't make mistakes! We do! Especially Tom!
He's made so many it's almost impossible to count them all! Just
kidding Tom I hope you don't read this part!)
Anyway, regardless of
its provenance, this information was and is pure gold.
So once again we say:
♪
♫ ¡
Muchisimas
gracias Auntie Maime !
♫
♪
Dec 1866. Departure from St Joseph Co, MI, to Hastings
MN.
As shown in Nellie's testimony
before the court in her divorce proceedings, the family of three
(Nellie, Frank, Jennie) migrated from Michigan to Minnesota in
December 1866, with baby Jennie around one month old. All
things considered, it was an extremely risky move.
Interpretations of this period of Nellie's life appear in Book III of the Saga,
many of which (excluding faulty chronologies) we still stand by.
Thumbnail of excerpt of p. 1 of
Nellie Divorce Papers, which provide richer documentation on the
next stage of Nellie's life:
Later Divorce Papers & Census Data.
Show that Nellie was illiterate
throughout her life, unable to write her own name, but
perhaps able to read simple sentences. This is vital for
understanding her first 18 years, for it means she never (or very
infrequently) attended school. It is evidence of an important
absence in her life: the absence of any kind of formal
education. It is also the main reason why we suspect she
became the family workhorse -- a person whose capacity to labor was,
to her father, the only thing about her that really mattered.
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