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Guiding Questions
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What happened to
Nellie and her girls after she divorced Frank Lang in the
winter of 1871? Where did she go? What did she do?
How did she and the girls survive? How did their lives
unfold in subsequent years? |
Evidence &
Interpretations
In December 2005, Mike was
scratching his head trying to figure out what the blazes happened to
Nellie Kinsman Lang after she divorced Frank Lang in the winter of
1871. Four years before, in December 1866, Nellie had arrived freshly married
from Michigan, babe in arms. Now, in winter 1871, she was on her own, with two
small daughters to shelter and feed -- 4 year-old Jennie, and 2 year-old
Nellie.
All Mike knew was that little
Jennie survived to become his great-grandmother. By the mid-1880s
she was married to Cornelius Sullivan and raising a family.
But what happened to Jennie's mother Nellie? What did life
hold for her and her girls after the series of disasters culminating
in her divorce in 1871? He had no idea.
The only bits of evidence he had to go on were the faded
memories of one of Frank Lang's old neighbors in Minneapolis (a man
named John Alexander) who thought maybe that Frank's first wife died
a long time ago, and her children raised by surviving relatives.
This was from an affidavit in Frank Lang's pension file. Mike figured Nellie died in the 1870s or early 1880s.
Then, later in December 2005,
Mike
discovered that Nellie was still alive in 1900, and still
living with her daughter Jennie, along with her son-in-law Cornelius
Sullivan, and her seven Sullivan grandchildren in Northeast
Minneapolis. By now she was
a widow, "Nellie Bla---" ("Blaine"? "Blair"?), listed as head
of household (along with Cornelius, in the same dwelling place),
worked as a cook, and was able to read but not write.
Then, in January 2006,
Tom found a series
of entries in the Minneapolis city directories showing Nellie living
with Cornelius and bearing the name "Nellie Blowe" (or "Ella Blowe"),
the widow of "Louis."
"Nellie Blowe"??
It
certainly matched the 1900 census. But what
kind of a name was that??
Then, later in the winter of 2006,
Tom found
the unlikeliest of news articles on Nellie Blow's third marriage -- from
the Iowa City News in August 1916, for some crazy reason on
the Ancestry.com database.
Tom says he knew, in his bones,
that Nellie had lived to a ripe old age, and he was right.
With the information from the Iowa City News it was easy to
find her death certificate.
Thus we
discovered
that Nellie (Ella)
Kinsman Lang Blowe Church lived until 1927, dying just a few
months shy of her 80th birthday.
So now the puzzle became
figuring out what happened to Nellie and her girls from January 1871
to the year 1900. A big blank for nearly three decades.
Three decades! How did they
survive these years? Where did they live? What did they do?
With their newly purchased Ancestry.com subscription, Mike &
Tom looked & looked for Nellie and her girls. Nothing seemed
to fit. In the 1880 census, Mike came across an 11 year-old
Nelly Lang in Northeast Minneapolis with exactly the
right personal data, but living with her "grandparents" in a
situation that made no sense for his Nelly Lang:
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1880 NE Minneapolis
Bailey T. Baldwin, 60, m, real estate, b.
Alabama, father b. GA, mother b. AL, Margaret Baldwin,
57, f, wife, keeping house, b. Canada, parents b. Canada,
Nelly Lang, 11, f,
granddaughter, b. MN, father b. Germany, mother b. Michigan |
Alabama? Canada? There was no Alabama or Canada
connection that Mike knew of. Besides, where was her sister Jennie? So Mike kept digging.
Then, in one of those magical "aha!" moments that all
genealogists dream about, Mike was searching for the surname "Blowe"
in the 1860 census (Nellie's second husband's name) when he stumbled
across the following entry for a family in Anoka County:
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1860 Anoka County MN
Bailey T. Baldwin, m, 41, farmer, $75
personal estate, b. Louisiana; Margarette Baldwin ,
37, b. British America; Charles
Baldwin, 23,
b. MN; Lucy
Baldwin, 9, b. MN;
William Baldwin, 2,
b. MN;
Ekan Blowe,
15, b. MN;
Felix Blowe, 13, b. MN |
Mike's eyes
just
about popped out of his head.
Bailey T. and
Margaret Baldwin, living with two boys named
Blowe???
Bailey from Alabama? Margarette from Canada?
The same Bailey T. and Margaret Baldwin listed as the "grandparents"
of 11 year-old Nelly Lang in 1880? Boys of the right age for one of them to have grown up and become
our Nellie's husband??
Bingo!
Thus was discovered
a new and unexplored path in
the quest to discover something of the shards of Nellie and her
girls' lives after the catastrophe of Frank Lang and Hastings.
This page once included
all the relevant documentary evidence
we had unearthed on the lives and times of Nellie and her daughters
Jennie & Nellie (Jr.) from their arrival in Minnesota in December
1866 until Nellie's death in 1927. That was before we decided to put most of this
material on another page devoted to the
bleau-rossignal-baldwin families,
in effect emptying out much of this page.
So the purpose of this
page changed. Now we mostly
assume our knowledge about the Bleau-Rossignal-Baldwin's, and
instead focus more on the Sullivan's, and (to the extent the
evidence permits) the Sullivans' relationship to the Bleau-Rossignal-Baldwin's.
As best as we can tell,
what happened is the following:
1871-1874
Nellie and her girls move
from Hastings to Minneapolis. Nellie meets and
marries
Louis Bleau (b. 1852). Like Nellie, Louis can neither read nor write.
Unlike Nellie, he is half Native American Indian, the son of Métis
parents (both half French and half Ojibwe) Marguerite Bourdon
&
Antoine Bleau dit Rossignal.
Through her marriage to
Louis, Nellie and her girls become enmeshed in a much larger kinship network
centered on
Bailey T. Baldwin
(b. Alabama, 1820), his wife
(and Louis's sister)
Marguerite Bleau Baldwin
(b. Red River Territory, Manitoba, 1824) and their children and
extended kin and friends. This has become one of the most
fascinating parts of the story: tracing these
French-Canadian Ojibwe-Métis
kin networks
that Nellie married into when she married Marguerite Bleau's younger
brother Louis Bleau.
How did Nellie and Louis meet?
One
plausible scenario, hatched almost entirely from Mike's imagination
but consistent with everything else we've learned, runs something as
follows:
1873-1878
Big financial Panic of 1873, major economic depression through
most of the 1870s. During this same period a major conflict
erupts between Irish and French-Canadian parishioners of St. Anthony
of Padua Catholic Church in NE Minneapolis. The church breaks
apart in late 1870s, with French Canadians moving to nearby Our Lady
of Lourdes, and the Irish retaining control of St. Anthony of Padua.
Part of a larger set of ethnic conflicts unfolding in NE Minneapolis
during a period of explosive urban growth and economic depression.
(Research Note: We need to find out more about this
religious-ethnic conflict.)
1871-1885
The dozen-plus years that the Bleau-Baldwin family was crucial in
helping to raise and care for Nellie's daughters Jennie and Nellie.
1874 Boxing
Day (December 26): Nellie's second husband Louis Bleau is stabbed to death
at a holiday dance in Centerville, Anoka County, Minnesota.
Nellie, her belly swollen with child, perhaps witnesses the event.
Her second husband murdered!
1875 Nellie bears her third daughter
and names her after her late husband:
Louise Blow.
1875-1879
Widow Nellie Kinsman Lang Blow
probably working as a domestic servant, and her girls probably living
partly with her and partly with their new grandparents, Bailey
T. & Marguerite Baldwin and their extended family in NE Minneapolis.
1880
The girls (Jennie, 14,
Nelly, 12,
Louise, 5) are living in
Minneapolis as members of the Baldwin-Bleau family network. Their mother Nellie Blow, 32, is working as a live-in domestic
servant in Richfield, adjacent to the Fort Snelling barracks, and
presumably commuting weekly by train along Hiawatha Avenue to stay in
close touch with her girls and the Baldwin-Bleau family.
ca. 1883
Jennie Lang, 17, marries
Cornelius Sullivan, 24, a lone Irishman who
recently migrated to Minnesota from Maine. They set up house
in NE Minneapolis. Mother Nellie Kinsman Lang Blow, 35, moves in with them.
1885
Nellie Blow and Cornelius & Jennie
Sullivan are living together in NE Minneapolis.
Nellie's daughter Nelly Lang, age 15, is working as a domestic servant down
the block with the Stockton's. Daughter Louise Blow, 10,
is living nearby with Edward & Adelaide Thibodeau, probably friends
of the Bleau-Baldwin's (see
the mysteries of
edward thibodeau). The basic picture is of a partially broken family
being held together mostly by the force of Nellie's will.
ca. 1883-1905
A
20-plus year period in which Nellie lives with Cornelius & Jennie
and their growing family.
Jennie starts having kids in 1886 and stops nine years, four
girls, and three boys later. By 1900 there are ten people in one cramped house
in NE Minneapolis -- seven kids, two parents, and one grandma. Grandma Nellie, still illiterate, works as
a cook. Cornelius exerts a strong ethnically Irish identity,
and his wife Jennie, we suspect, does not push back, having learned as a small
child not to challenge powerful and assertive men. The
Sullivan's develop a family fiction that they are 100% Irish.
In fact Jennie is half English, half German, and their children
thus only half Irish..
The simmering
Irish-French Canadian ethnic conflict
makes for a potentially divisive
set of relationships between the Sullivan clan and the
Bleau-Baldwin clan. Sometime in the 1890s,
Nelly Lang marries "Ace" Atkins, an Anglo from Vermont. Perhaps
she opts out of this ethnic conflict, choosing neither side.
Louise Blow probably marries (see 1916
Iowa City News article, below),
but when and to whom is not known. Perhaps she embraced
her French-Canadian heritage of the Bleau-Baldwin's, and rejected the Irish
heritage of the Sullivan's. All remain in NE
Minneapolis, as far as we know.
So for the three
daughters, the hypothesis is:
Jennie assumes more of an Irish ethnic identity,
Louise gravitates
more toward the French-Canadian, and Nelly adopts
neither.
ca. 1906-1915 Nellie, ages 58-67, moves out of Jennie and Cornelius's house and
in with her granddaughter Mary Sullivan Church (Aunt Maime) and her
husband Henry Church in SE Minneapolis.
Aug 1916
Nellie, 68, marries
Charley Church, 53, Henry Church's father.
Her marriage to her granddaughter's husband's father – Maime's
husband Henry's father Charley -- creates a very confusing set of relationships, a circumstance so peculiar that it hits the wire services
as a queer "human interest" story, sandwiched between oddball
snippets about 100 year-old pickles and human manikins. By
this time Nellie remains close to only one of her daughters:
Jennie. The other two, Nellie and Louise, don't even come to
the wedding. Probably for a combination of reasons –
ethnic, religious, personal – both are mostly estranged from their
mother.
1916-1927 Nellie and Charley live in NE Minneapolis till Nellie's death on
March 29, 1927.
1920s-1930s
By now all the Sullivan kids
have carved out their own lives.
To the Year 1900
On the Métis connection
and the Bleau-Baldwins, see
remember the red river valley.
On Nellie's ancestry and life
before Minnesota, see
ella
kinsman to her 18th year, 1848-1866.
On
Nellie's 1871 divorce
from Frank Lang, see
nellie divorce papers.
On Frank Lang's
wartime and postwar life & times, see
frank lang civil war pension file.
One bit of
documentary evidence
not included in the aforementioned pages is the 1870 census of Frank &
Nellie Lang in Hastings, MN (
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July 1870 Census, 3rd Ward, City of
Hastings, Dakota County, MN
Lange, Frank, 28,
m, cooper, $400 real estate, b. Prussia
Lange, Nellie, 22, f,
keeping house, b. NY
Lange, Nellie, 2, f,
b. MN
Lange, Jennie, 4, f,
b. MI
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These census pages suggest
that Nellie & her
daughters lived near downtown Hastings near the Mississippi River
and railroad tracks, in an ethnically-mixed working-class district,
with hotels and grocers nearby. We exclude Frank from this
observation because Nellie's divorce papers suggest that Frank was
nowhere to be found when the census-taker came around in summer
1870, and that Nellie provided his personal data.
1889-1890 Minneapolis City Directory
Cornelius Sullivan,
lab, r 78 7th Ave NE
1890-91 Minneapolis City Directory
Cornelius Sullivan
78th Ave NE
[ Nellie Blow
not listed ]
Bailey T. Baldwin
r 716 Lincoln
1896-1897 Minneapolis City Directory
Nellie Blowe
(wid
Louis) 901 4th St NE
Cornelius Sullivan
(lab) 901 4th St NE
1899-1904:
Bailey T. & Marguerite Baldwin
July 2, 1899. A newspaper article,
the
modern leather-stocking tale on
the life & times of Marguerite and Bailey T. Baldwin, appears in the
Sunday Minneapolis Tribune.
March 31, 1900.
Marguerite Bleau dit Rossignal Bottineau Baldwin dies.
December 19, 1904.
Bailey T. Baldwin dies.
From
the 1900s to the 1930s
1900-01 Minneapolis City Directory
Ella M. Blowe
(wid
Louis) 901 4th St NE
Cornelius Sullivan
lab, r 901 4th St NE
July 15, 1900
The Sullivan Family in NE Minneapolis (
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.jpg)
(excerpt from 1900 census)
Nellie Blowe,
52, household head, cook, cannot write, can read, living with
her daughter Jennie Sullivan, son-in-law Cornelius Sullivan, and
her seven grandchildren, all at 901 4th St. NE.
Bailey T. Baldwin,
80, still living
at his longtime residence at 716 Lincoln Street NE with his daughter Lucy and her husband James Doyle.
1905-06 Minneapolis City Directory
Ella Blowe
(wid Louis) 328 13th Ave NE
Cornelius Sullivan
lab, r 328 13th Ave NE
1910 Census
Tim Sullivan
1905-1937 The House
at 342 13th Avenue Northeast
The following
description of the Sullivan family house is from a 1989
letter by Richard Reiser, the son of our Aunt Grace (Grandma's sister).
Richard lived in this house as a child in the 1920s and 1930s. As
his letter demonstrates, Richard's memories of it remained sharp despite
the passage of more than half a century. After Jennie Lang
Sullivan's death in 1937, the house was bulldozed to make way for a
parking lot.
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Richard Reiser on the Sullivan Family House, 342 13th Ave NE
The Sullivan
home in which your grandmother and my mother lived from their birth
until they became married was located at 342 13th Ave., N.E.,
Minneapolis. It was probably built in the early 1900s at a
cost of about $1,800. Although various changes in its
appearance took place over many years, it was very deceptive as from
the outside it looked quite small, but from the inside it gave the
impression of being much larger.
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1915-16 Minneapolis City Directory
Nellie Blowe
(wid Louis), r 3525 43rd Ave
So
Cornelius Sullivan
lab r 342 13th Ave NE
NOTE: Nellie &
Charlie Church's house at 3525 43rd Avenue South was
built in 1911, and so does not appear in the 1910 census.
Here's Tom's May 2006 photo of this tiny house, which,
according to Tom's expert eye, has had at least three or
four additions since it was originally built.


3525 43rd Avenue
South, Minneapolis; photos by Tom, May 2006
FATHER, HUSBAND, OR
GRANDPA
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Wedding at Minneapolis Brings up Queer Triangle of Relationships.
Groom Doesn't Know Status.
Minneapolis,
Minn.—Mrs. Henry Church, this city, now calls Charles D.
Church of Campbell, Minn., "Father."
That's what
she called him ever since she married his son, several years ago.
But
after tonight she'll have to call him "Grandpa." For this evening
he intends to marry her grandmother, Mrs. Nellie Blowe.
Question:
What kin will Charles D. Church be to himself after the ceremony?
He will still
be his son's father of course; but he will also be his son's
grandfather-in-law.
He will still be the grandfather of his son's two children; but will
be also be their step-great-grandfather?
Will Henry
Church call him "dad" or "granddad"?
Will Henry
Church call the bride at the wedding mother or grandmother?
With her are
two great grandchildren stretching the wedding ribbons, several of
her nine grand children present, and an unexpected attendance on the
part of at least one of her three children, Mrs. Blowe, who is 65
years old, will be married at the house of her grand daughter, Mrs.
Church. Only one of the bride grooms ten children will be present,
this is Henry Church, Mrs. Blowe's grand son-in-law.
Mrs. Blowe has been a widow for forty years. For the
last few years she has lived with her grand daughter, Mrs.
Church. Her prospective husband came up from Campbell,
Minn., a year ago to visit his son, Henry. He never
did go home.
He met for the
first time Mrs. Blowe. She was a bright, self-possessed woman. He
liked her. He protracted his stay. He paid court. And now he has
won her. He is 53 years old.
Mrs. Henry
Church, grand daughter of the bride to be, is happy over the
situation. "It's going to be a pretty wedding and we will all be
gay," she said. "Only such a tangle of relationships."
In all about
25 relatives will be at the wedding. Most of them want to find out
what kin they'll be to each other after it's over. Mrs. Blowe is
well known in Minneapolis, and, as her grand daughter said, "has
been a resident here ever since Minneapolis was a village."
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[ Research Note: We are still looking for the
original article in the Minneapolis newspapers, which we're
hoping might include a photo of Nellie. Mike checked the
Tribune for all of August 1916 and it's not there.
Next is the Star. ]
Jan
1920 Census, 421 7th Ave NE, Ward 1, Minneapolis,
Hennepin Co MN
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Jan
1920 Census, 505 8th Ave NE, Ward 1, Minneapolis,
Hennepin Co MN
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Jan
1920 Census, 407 Broadway, Ward 1, Minneapolis, Hennepin
Co MN
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